Sex Toys For Those With Vulva Pain | January 2024
Hello beautiful souls!
Happy new year!!!
Today’s blog is all about a new position that helped me finally have an orgasm without this scary cramping feeling.
For those of you who need an update:
Over the last month, everytime I’d guide myself to an orgasm, I'd feel cramping and a hot stinging pain going up my stomach.
I went to the OBGYN and she provided me with a prescription for pain pills (which i’ll talk about in February's episode of my sex positive podcast)
Not only did I protest the prescription but I advocated for myself and asked for a recommendation for a specialist to run tests instead of looking at my vulva and guessing I had a yeast infection. I spoke kindly, clearly and confidently but I can’t lie, I was so scared.
I felt a mix of proudness and defeat. Proud because I stood up for myself and my vulva but defeated because I could only imagine how many young women would get the same prescription and take pain pills for the rest of their lives instead of finding the root cause of the problem! Simply because they didn’t know they had a choice.
Hopefully one day my advocacy can help stop toxic practices like the one I experienced.
(Sidenote: I don’t blame my doctor. She's a sweet human and my first experience with her was very healing. It is not her fault her schooling was created on the basis of patriarchy and colonization.)
But I digress….
One day I decided to try to pleasure myself by laying on my stomach. I knew my body knew what it needed to do and BOOM…. I had one, two then THREE painless orgasms!!!!!!
Woah. No pain pills! Pure bliss.
There are some medical explanations as to why this can help someone who experiences pelvic pain which we can dive into on PATREON!
I also tried out my new toys in this new position The Kiss by Loveline & The Womanizer ULTRA QUIET laydown vibe.
The Kiss is great for people who want to try something new and she’s only $99. I love her color and I love the new kind of orgasm and sensation this toy provides. I like turning her to the side and tucking the tongue between my labia. YUM!
The Womanizer Noiseless Lay Down Vibe is true to its word and is by far the most quiet vibe I currently own. Its rumbles are very gentle and are perfect for those struggling with sensitivity or overstimulation of the vulva and clit.
I also had a blast with the Honey Play Box Bite Me Sucking Tapping & Vibrating Cream Pop Stimulator because I had never used a toy that THUMPED.
When I first heard that it thumped my immediate thought was “pain” but boy oh boy when your juices accompany the thumping you can create your own creamsicle if you know what I mean.
So yeah… these are the toys that helped me learn that I can still achieve painless orgasms while I am on the earth to get the answer as to why I felt pain in the first place.
Tune into my most recent podcast episodes to learn about how to grow through vulva pain & more.
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Xoxo
Love Atiya
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