What Is Edging & How To Do It | October 2024
Hey beautiful souls!
Happy October! Some call this time of year “spooky season” but you know what’s spooky? Knowing that there are people out there who have had yet to experience a truly amazing orgasm!
Have no fear… that’s why I was sent here!
Today we’re gonna talk about one of my favorite self intimacy practices which can also be practiced with a partner.
Introducing EDGING (also known as delayed orgasm but that’s not as cute.)
WHAT IS EDGING?
Edging is basically when you get your body right to the tip of an orgasm but don’t allow the orgasm to come to full term YET. Instead you let your body cool down a little before exciting it again. Allowing the blood in your genitals to build and then settle for a few more times.
One of my favorite things to do is see HOW close to the orgasm WITHOUT completing the orgasm.
Think of it as playing a violin and right as you’re about to hit the highest most beautiful note, you bring the bow back down, strum it a little as it gets quieter and start the note all over again.
Eventually bringing you to the most euphoric O you have probably ever had.
HOW TO EDGE
Edging can be done with your hands, a sex toy or even a pillow!
If you’re edging by yourself I recommend (as always) that you give yourself A LOT of whatever forms of foreplay that you enjoy. This adds to the experience and to the build up. Strumming your genitals ever so often but without direct stimulation (soft circular movements.)
Once you feel like you’re connected and your energy is vibrating off of your warm excited body THAT is when you can begin intentionally caressing your genitals in whatever motions feel the best with whatever tools you’ve like that I listed above, be sure to use a vegan lubrication for extra fun.
Breathe into your body and practice being in the moment, breathwork can help with that, I have tips on my YOUTUBE!
If you’re edging with a partner, everything above applies! The only difference is to make sure you’re actively communicating with your partner ESPECIALLY when you feel like you’re close to climaxing. This is perfect for people (like me) who feel a lot of pressure to orgasm at a certain time.
THE BENEFITS AND CONCLUSION
Edging is my bestie! It’s one of my favorite forms of self pleasure and really helps me curb that weird feeling that I sometimes feel after a super rushed masturbation session.
Another benefit is that edging can help you experience a heightened orgasm and for people with P’s it can help with preejaculation.
Because of the amount of foreplay and time that’s required, after I edge I usually feel the most connected to myself because I truly have to be connected if I’m trying to figure out when I’m about to c*m.
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Xoxo
Love atiya
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